Sunday, April 22, 2012

Tv disappointments




Over the weekend, I was able to catch a show which was originally aired overseas, which made me very angry at Asian culture and asian society.

The idea of the show, was the take 5 different women, of various social classes, and help them "improve" themselves so they would be able to find a husband to settle with.

At first I was skeptical, maybe it might actually be informative, maybe it might teach me something... MAYBE...
I'm sad to say that it didn't happen. Though the series is only 10 episodes long, I had to leave the room halfway through the 3 episode. And i'm glad to say that i don't regret it. These so called "life coaches", and "specialists" (such as "specialist" in understanding how men think, how to "look prettier"... pffft)are filled with a bunch of BS!

One of the girls who was in her mid to late 20s, was told that she was "too aggressive" and that men like women who are passive. Another was told that she needed to get plastic surgery. An older lady, was told that because of her age (early 40s), she'd need to change and alter her standards in looking for someone to spend the rest of her life with, cause no one wants to be with a lady within her age range. In general, the girls were also told to not at that smart... because it'll make a man feel inferior, and that's not going to help you find a man....

I guess what angers me the most, was when one of the specialist was teaching the girls  how to "interact with a man via txt" (aka, flirt) [fyi, if you're interested... when replying txts, reply with fewer characters than what they send you, make sure you are never the last person to send a txt out, and Never EVER be the one that initiates outings]. My mother looked at me, and said, you could get pointers on this.


My reaction was.. WTF?!?!?! if a person watches enough tv... we will know what "the rules" are, and even then, they might not be right. second, this has nothing to do, with improving yourself to make yourself a better person, in hopes of meeting a nice boy to spend the rest of your life with.


WHAT IS THE WORLD COMING TO?

I don't have a conclusion for this. I'm VERY DISAPPOINTED and still VERY ANGRY.
Think of what you may......

The show is called, Bride Wannabes or 盛女愛作戰 .. and it's produced by TVB
Synopsis:
The 'Ladies Left Behind' (Sing Lui) is a serious problem in Hong Kong. Five single Hong Kong women -- Gobby, Suki, Bonnie, Mandy and Florence -- are still single due to all kinds of reasons and are extremely longing for true love. Within 6 months, a group of experts assist them by giving them a huge makeover as well as be their gender relation consultant, so they have the skills to attract the opposite sex. Finally, a matchmaker will help them find a partner. The five ladies will do whatever they can to meet, attract and pursue men in order to create future happiness for themselves and find their Mr. Right.

1 comment:

  1. http://i0.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/000/126/314/3cd8a33a.png ? lolol

    But you know, what's really sad, this is what men want. They want women to make them feel superior, and if a women is or makes them feel superior in any way, they're done. I'm not really a feminist, but this way of thinking is just primitive. I think a guy should be able to appreciate these kind of traits in a woman. A woman who is aggressive only shows she's confident, imperfections are perfection, and single at such age only means she will be serious in her relationship. I have not seen the show, but I can agree with you, that sounds like a retarded show (:

    But, what do I know =p

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